This is our first blog post and it is short and simple. More writings will come, but I (Elizabeth) just want to start by welcoming you to our little online space. We created Lotus & Phoenix out of love and out of care. This world is tough going for a lot of people. We know first hand that it can be challenging to find a psychotherapist that you can comfortably talk to and that is helpful. We have been studying pastoral counseling, psychotherapy, religion (and religious trauma), healthy relationships, and recovery for many years. We have also been in therapy ourselves for many years because we deeply believe that in order to support others, we have to do our own healing and our own work.
We strive to make sure that our time together, whether online or in person, is meaningful and comfortable. We are flexible and can adjust to meet your needs. Some people need a psychotherapist to hear them and provide care and empathy. Some people need additional resources or insight. A lot of times we aren’t sure what we need until we talk about it with someone. Others want to approach challenges from a faith standpoint, while others want to process the pain and hurt that has come from being a part of a harmful faith community. We are here for that. For all of it. With no judgement. No shame. We believe in you and we are excited to journey alongside you as you find ways to create the sort of life you long for.